Are You Ready?

April 16th, 2008

To make any real and lasting improvement in your life, you have to be ready for it. Meaning, you are ready to take on challenges, make mental shifts, make a solid commitment to yourself and take action. Now, ask yourself, am I ready? Because without the above mentioned essential elements you may not experience all the joy, fulfillment and happiness that improving your life has to offer. To see if you are ready, answer Yes/No to the following questions:

1. I feel “Now” is the right time for me to see improvement in my life.

2. I am fully able, willing and ready to learn and grow, and do the work it takes to make the changes that I want to see.

3. I am willing to see and tell the truth.

4. I am willing to raise my personal standards, and to set and achieve much bigger goals.

5. I realize I am responsible for my own future.

If you have answered mostly ‘Yes’ to the above, then we believe that you are ready to start improving your life. The next step for you would be to identify what improvement you want to make first. What is the first thing you want to change for the better? For example,

• Balance

• Relationships

• Money

• Career

• Energy

• Time… or what else?

If, on the other hand, you don’t feel ready, that’s okay. There are times in life that we don’t feel ready. But, if you really want to make improvements, then think about what needs to happen in order for you to be ready. All you need to do is take one step at a time.

Take Action!

Whether you are ready or not, the key to improving your life is to take action. Every action you take will be rewarded with important information about what works for you. If you don’t take action then you will never learn anything new. Even if your action doesn’t work, at least you will have learned that it doesn’t, but you won’t know until you try. Now you can take your newly found wisdom and use it to move forward.

Watch Out!

Don’t get caught up with just talking about what you want to do or what you want to improve. Often we never get to ‘DO’ anything about our situations because we spend our time complaining about it with friends instead of creating a good action plan and carrying it out. Remember, just talking about it will not get you anywhere. True life improvement lies in taking action.

Next Step…?

So how can you take effective action? The secret is in how you set your goals. See my article on effective goal setting also in the archives.

Alexandra Watson has helped countless women create happy and fulfilling lives through her happiness system. She has developed a fool-proof, easy-to-follow seven step system to happiness that any woman can use and see results fast. John Gray, author of Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus calls Alexandra’s book The Happiness System for Women ‘a vibrant and exciting journey to the centre of your soul’. Alexandra has featured internationally on TV, radio and in many publications. She can be contacted by email on: HappinessAuthor@aol.com or visit her website at http://www.AlexandraWatson.com

Deciding To Consolidate Debt?

April 16th, 2008

What is the point of consolidating debt and when should you do it? What are some of the options for consolidating debt? At some point in their financial lives, many people ask these questions. If you have been pondering these thoughts, read on.

Consolidating debt means different things to different people. To a young couple or family thinking about buying a home consolidating debt may be necessary to lessen their debt to income ratio. For a single person tired of writing ten or twenty checks each month consolidating debt may be a way of making his/her financial life more convenient and organized. A family with college age children may consolidate debt in order to fund a college education. Older people on the verge of retirement may be considering debt consolidation as a way of simplifying their lives and adjusting to a change in income. All of these scenarios are sound reasons for investigating debt consolidation and all require different approaches for said consolidation.

What types of debt consolidation might be used by the people in each of the previous situations?

A couple on the verge of their first home purchase may find that the amount they owe on their credit cards each month takes up too large a portion of their monthly income. Sometimes lending institutions will not approve a home loan for a buyer who does not have a certain amount of unobligated income. In order to free up a little income the couple may choose to consolidate their debt. To accomplish this all of the current bills would be paid off via a lower interest, longer term loan. Because the loan is not costing them as much in interest and is being paid off over a longer period of time the monthly payment would be smaller. Thus, the proportion of debt to income would be lower.

When a person is just tired of writing a great number of checks each month and concerned that one month a payment due might get overlooked, he/she may choose to do a simple debt consolidation for the purpose of bringing all of his/her bills under one roof. If the person has good credit this is easily achieved. Sometimes if the debt is refinanced at a lower interest rate not only will the person end up with a more convenient payment he/she will also have a lower payment.

A family which owns its own home may tap the equity in that home to pay for a child’s college education. In order to do this the home must have accumulated sufficient value to cover the cost of the mortgage, the cost of the refinancing, the cost of the bills to be rolled over and still generate enough cash to pay for the child’s schooling. Given the rate at which home values have appreciated in recent years having this much equity is not unreasonable. However, homeowners should not make their homes piggybanks for any type of expense that comes up. Constant cashing out of a home’s equity is expensive and perhaps even dangerous over the long run.

Persons nearing retirement age may choose to consolidate debts in order to make life less complicated as well as to make living less expensive. This type of debt consolidation is also done by accessing the equity in one’s home. If the mortgage is long standing and the couple has maintained good to excellent credit it may be that the house can be refinanced at a significantly better interest rate while also generating cash to pay off a substantial number of bills. Thus, as the couple enters their retirement years they have a lower house payment and fewer bills to pay.

The above examples illustrate just a few ways that debt consolidation may enhance the lifestyles of modern consumers.

If you would like to read more of my personal articles, please feel free to visit my debt consolidation blog!

Perfect Pedicures and Magnificent Manicures : A “How To”

April 16th, 2008

How to Get Salon Quality Manicures and Pedicures

Summer time is once again upon us. Gone are the thick socks and stifling shoes, and in are the feet-baring sandals that adorn your shoe closet. You know what that means ladies. Pedicure Time! Oh, and while we’re talking about pedicures, most of these pointers also apply to manicures.

Shopping List for Success :

1.)  Cuticle Stick
 2.)  Cuticle Oil or Conditioner
 3.)  Fast Drying Base Coat
 4.)  Fast Drying Top Coat
 5.)  Buffer
 6.)  Large Emory Board

The first thing you need to do is to make sure you start off with clean nails. Clean nails will help the nail polish to bond better with the nail, and help ensure a lasting finish. If you have any nails that are obviously longer than all of the others, then I suggest you use a small pair of nail scissors, not clippers, to give them a trim before anything else is done.

The reason I don’t suggest using clippers, at least on your hands, is that they tend to make fragile nails split, because they do not “bend” with the nail when it is cut off, which stresses the rest of the nail and can cause splitting and breaking down the line. Once the nails have all been evened out with a pair of nail scissors, the filing begins.

Begin with an emory board style nail file, not metal. It is easier to use the larger emory boards rather than the small, because it covers more surface area and tends to be more easily manipulated. Gently file the rough edges of the nails, angling it only slightly around the outer edges, for a somewhat “squared off” look. You don’t want the nails too rounded, since nails typically grow better and faster when they are kept in a squared shape, but you can use your judgement as to your shape preference.

Next, using a rubber tipped cuticle stick, gently shape the cuticles. Some people have barely any cuticle at all, and can skip this step. Others may have thicker, more noticeable cuticles and they are the ones that need to focus on grooming them more. One you’ve shaped and gently pushed back your cuticles, dab a drop of conditioning cuticle oil and rub in.

Use a makeup brush and dust off any dust leftover from filing. You may even want to go wash your hands so that none of the nail dust or the cuticle conditioner interferes with the application of the polish. The next step is crucial to the longevity of your manicure and pedicure, since it forms a base which provides optimal adherence of your polish to your nail surface.

Use a nail buffer, or the buffing side of your nail file, and lightly buff the surface of your nails, just enough so that you do not see as much luster on the surface as you usually would. Now, take your preferred sheer or clear base coat polish and slick a light layer of it on. Wait a full minute and half at least, and then you may begin to apply your nail color of choice.

This next step is also very important to the longevity of your manicure or pedicure, as it seals you polish in a hard armor which is very tough to chip. Using the top coat of your choice, slick one to two layers of the top coat on and allow to completely dry. And that’s it, you’re done! Trust me, if you follow all of these steps your manicures and pedicures will last forever! Well, maybe not forever, but you get the picture.

Visit Cosmetics Galore Product Reviews : Size Genetics Reviews for more beauty product reviews. Danna Schneider is also the founder of MyBeautySpace.com : Beauty Blog